Okay, it’s happening! Everybody stay calm! There is nothing more exciting than getting ready to pop the question. While choosing to take that step together as a couple is an incredible feeling, we know that planning an engagement can also come with some pre-game jitters. So deep breath, you got this. Here is a list of checkpoints to help the engagement planning and ring-buying process go smoothly
Decide Whether You Want To Do It Together or Solo
At Wove, we believe there is no “right” way to buy an engagement ring. That’s why we customize the ring design process around your needs as a couple. Maybe you and your partner enjoy surprises and have agreed on keeping the ring design a secret until the big reveal. Perhaps you want to take on every part of the ring design process hand-in-hand. We love that for you. Whether you decide to collaborate on the ring design together or keep it a mystery, we are here to make your ring design experience one you will look back on and remember.
Decide on Your Budget
We are sure you’ve heard about the “three months’ salary” rule. And you can feel free to ignore it, respectfully. It can be tricky to know exactly how much to spend when shopping for the perfect ring and you can’t put a price on the bond you share. However, you can rest assured that there are ways to make your dream engagement ring look happen whatever your budget. Understanding your partner’s preferences is a great place to start when deciding on your budget. Certain factors like diamond quality and setting can elevate a simple look without breaking the bank. Going the customized engagement ring route is another way to work within your budget while also creating a stunning one-of-a-kind ring worthy of any partnership. At Wove, our in-house team of designers work with you to create a custom ring – all while keeping your budget range in mind.
Meet With A Designer
There is no “one size fits all” approach to designing your wedding ring – don’t let those big online jewelers tell you otherwise. We understand how big of a decision buying an engagement ring can be, which is why we believe it’s paramount to have someone you trust by your side guiding you through the process. And unlike the limited time you may receive from a traditional jewelry store sales associate, a designer is there to provide you their full attention for a more personalized experience. At Wove, we match you with an expert who will talk you through your preferences while answering any questions you might have along the way.
Choose Your Setting
Choosing the right setting is one of the most important decisions you’ll make about your engagement ring. While the setting contributes to the overall look and feel of your ring, it also plays the important role of securing and protecting the diamond. Consider your lifestyle. Are you active? Do you do a lot of work with your hands? A lower setting for a larger diamond might be safer to avoid your stone catching on something or chipping. Certain ring settings can also make the diamond appear larger. To avoid having to stretch your budget by going up a carat size, consider a setting like a halo – a smaller diamond surrounded by smaller stones – to give the appearance of a larger diamond. Our experts help you choose the right setting with your preferences in mind, so you can feel confident in the ring you take home.
Choose Your Ring Style
Walk past the jewelry store case at your local mall and you might be intimidated by all the engagement ring styles to choose from. To help you decide which ring style fits best with your taste and budget, we put together this helpful guide to engagement ring styles. If you aren’t sure about your partner’s ring style and want to keep your proposal a surprise, choosing a classic solitaire engagement ring can be a safe option. This timeless style makes any stone you choose pop. At Wove, we send you a replica ring to try on at home that looks and feels just like the real thing. That way, you can feel confident whatever style you choose.
Choose Your Metal Type
When it comes to selecting the right metal for your engagement ring, each metal type comes with a list of pros and cons to consider. Some common metal types include platinum, white gold, yellow gold, and rose gold. Style preference, durability, and upkeep are all important factors that go into decision-making. For example, yellow gold is timeless, versatile, and fairly easy to maintain, but can be prone to scratching, and couples with an active lifestyle may want to go for a more durable metal like platinum. When factoring in your budget, white gold is a less expensive option to platinum but bears a close resemblance.
Pick Between Lab Grown or Natural Diamond
While natural diamonds have been the go-to choice for centuries, lab-grown diamonds are quickly growing in popularity as a viable alternative. A natural diamond is formed underground as a result of pressure and heat over a long period. A lab-created diamond is grown in a lab but has the exact same make-up as a natural diamond, so it is almost impossible to tell the difference between the two. When it comes to deciding between a lab-grown or natural diamond, we believe the choice is entirely up to the couple.
Weigh Out The 4Cs
Have you heard of the 4Cs? A well-known assessment of diamond quality, this term describes the four main factors of determining a diamond’s price point. The 4Cs are cut, color, clarity, and carat weight. Cut quality is one of the most important factors to consider when choosing a diamond. Cut is how the diamond’s facets interact with light. When it comes to color, less is more. The less color a diamond has, the higher its value. Diamond clarity refers to the absence of inclusions or blemishes. Due to the way diamonds are formed, the intense pressure and heat result in imperfections that aren’t always noticeable to the naked eye. Diamonds with few flaws are harder to find and are therefore costlier. Lastly, we have carat weight. Diamonds are weighed in metric carats, and a diamond’s value increases with carat weight. Keep in mind, two diamonds of the same carat weight can differ significantly in price point depending on other factors like cut, color, and clarity. Understanding each of the 4Cs and how they work together will help you make a well- informed decision when purchasing a diamond.
Decide on Your Diamond Shape
Don’t let picking the right diamond scare you. All you need is a little guidance from your friendly neighborhood experts at Wove. Diamond shape trends come and go, but ultimately, it’s about deciding which fits best with your own unique style. Diamond shape refers to the geometric characteristics of the diamond. Some of the popular diamond shape types include round, princess, cushion, and emerald. When deciding which diamond style is right for you, think about your preferences. Is size important to you? Choosing the right diamond shape can help you maximize your budget without sacrificing quality and overall appeal.
Plan Your Proposal
It all starts with a plan. Even if you want it to be a surprise, we suggest finding out your partner’s preferences and expectations when it comes to the proposal. Whether it is a grand expression of love (remember the Bruno Mars “Marry You” flash mob proposal?) or an intimate affair between the two of you, creativity and thoughtfulness go a long way. Consider a special location that is meaningful to you as a couple or plan that special getaway you’ve been talking about. Another important logistic is deciding if and how you want to document the special day. We recommend arranging a photographer or calling in a friend to capture the “I do” moment ahead of time so you can look back and remember every detail about your proposal.
Share The News!
Once you have checked off the important to-dos, it’s time to share the big news! Traditionally, the first to know should be those closest to you. Once you have told your parents, siblings, grandparents, and extended family, there are many ways you can announce your engagement to your circle of friends. Whether it’s throwing a party, sending out a cute announcement by mail, or via social media, think of this as a great time to get creative and add your own unique flair as a couple.
As you can see, there are many important aspects to consider before getting ready to pop the question. But at the end of the day, it’s about celebrating the love you share as a couple and the commitment you are preparing to make. And don’t forget the ring!
